Let's see if these sound familiar:

You thought your life would be easier after residency.

but you keep coming back to resentment and anger.

The truth is, some things ARE easier, but some things aren’t. You thought you’d have more time with him and you don’t.

You thought you’d have more time to take that class, or finally make your health a priority. You thought it would finally be YOUR turn to use the family resources for some of the things YOU want. You thought you would feel different. And you don’t.

If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know this:

There’s nothing wrong with you. You didn’t make a huge mistake by going into medicine.

It’s not too late to take your turn.

You don’t have to feel trapped by his career anymore.
You don’t have to choose between his career, what’s best for your family, and what you desire.

There is room for all of it.

you don’t have to choose between your dreams and his career.

In Doctors’ Wives Only, you’ll learn how to become an equal partner in your marriage.

How to communicate your wants without feeling demanding or selfish.

You’ll stop keeping a mental tally of everything you’re missing out on because of his career and instead put your energy into doing the things you feel called to do.

Because the world needs what you have to offer, too.

You weren’t meant to be a backup dancer to his career.

And you can pursue your desires without sacrificing your family’s well-being.

I have combined everything I’ve learned

from my experience as a doctors’ wife, from coaching my clients, and from my training as a Master Certified Life Coach

into a program that will give you the tools and skills you need to drop the resentment in your marriage and come out of the shadow of your husband’s career.

Along with all the tools that will help you create the marriage you long for, you’ll also learn how to:

Have productive conversations with your husband about things like whether or not your children should go to public or private school.
Focus on loving who your kids are NOW instead of worrying about everything you might be doing wrong to screw up their future.
Spend and save money intentionally instead of feeling ashamed of your student loans.
Go to Target for a quick purchase and NOT come out with yet another set of throw pillows that you don’t really even want.
Tackle your to-do list with ease and efficiency instead of exhaustion and overwhelm.

It’s possible to be grateful for your life AND advocate for changes that are important to you.

Many doctors’ wives feel alone and misunderstood

because there isn’t exactly a line of people eager to hear about the challenges of being married to medicine.

You don’t have a place to share your struggles. Especially because a lot of people think you shouldn’t have any.

Until now. In Doctors’ Wives Only you’ll come together with a small group of women who share the common desire to better their marriages and their lives. A group of women who are committed to learning how to remove the stumbling blocks in their relationship.

It’s a safe space where you can bring all of your crazy and all of your ugly and you will be met with love and compassion.

Every time.

No exceptions.

You get to come exactly as you are--but you won’t stay that way.

You will learn how to change every relationship in your life from the inside out.

You can have a resentment-free marriage. Coaching is the solution to get you there.

You might be thinking, ‘I shouldn’t need someone to help me figure my life out. I’m capable of doing that on my own.’
That’s what I thought.

I was resourceful and scrappy in so many areas of my life. I thought I should be able to do it without help.

I thought getting help meant there was something wrong with me.

And yet, I wasn’t figuring my life out on my own.

Sure, I could put on a happy face and pretend that I was managing everything great.

But inside I felt so completely alone.

Doing the same thing over and over for years.

Hoping to get a different result.

Until I found coaching.

And everything changed.

You don’t have to put your ideal life on hold any longer.

You’ve waited long enough.

It will jump start you on the path to creating a life where his job is no longer in your way. A life where you no longer feel full of resentment and regret.

A life where you make time for your dreams, his career, and your family’s well-being.

What would it be like to…

Have the energy to pursue what lights you up inside?

You’ll learn how to drop the resentment in your marriage and you’ll have so much more energy to focus on the things you feel called to do.

Whether it’s finally decluttering your closets, opening your own business, going back to school,

or accomplishing a health goal that you’ve put on the back burner for years.

Here’s what you’ll experience in Doctors’ Wives Only

A transformed relationship with yourself--one where you no longer put your desires on hold, where your husband’s job no longer means you can’t pursue your dreams.
A fundamental shift in your relationship with your husband, where you no longer have fights with him in your head before he ever gets home from work and instead spend more time laughing together, making plans together, and problem-solving together.
An improved relationship with your future where you'll take bigger risks and set bigger goals (if you want to) because you'll learn how to get your own back when you fail. You'll gain the courage to get back up again.

I was worried that coaching would reveal a huge flaw in me that I wouldn’t be able to “fix”, but instead I learned how to hold space for whatever I’m thinking and feeling. I never felt judged but also never felt coddled so I was able to accelerate my growth so much.

Stacey C.

I was initially very hesitant to join Doctors’ Wive Only group coaching. I find it difficult to let my guard down and be vulnerable. But the group understands the complexities of being a Doctor's wife and rather than feeling judged, I feel validated that I am not crazy, lazy, or weak. I have made so many positive changes in my relationships and I am very grateful to have found coaching. My family's lives have been changed forever because of it.

Jackie S.

Through coaching I was able to discover that my seemingly “nice, tried and true” thoughts were like poison to me and not helping me at all. I learned how to process the pain of years of resentment and pull down the wall I was holding up around my heart. Working on myself made all the difference for me to love my relationship with my husband.

Julie E.

Through coaching I learned that I am my own champion and hero. I learned how to be honest and hear my inner voice.

Rachael P

6 months of weekly coaching. We will meet as a small group of doctors’ wives over zoom for coaching, community, and exponential growth.
Access to your master certified coach. You’ll be able to ask questions and get answers between calls.
A community of like-minded doctors’ wives. Women who understand your unique challenges and are committed to creating the marriages and lives of their dreams while still supporting their husbands and families with theirs.
Additional tools to access at your convenience. You’ll be granted access to videos, worksheets, and self-reflection exercises that will give you the opportunity to dive as deep as you’d like into this life-changing work.
Access to a private podcast where you can listen to the course on the go AND re-listen to the weekly calls.