It's fun to keep score in sports and card games.

But in marriage it puts you and your husband on opposite teams.

There’s a reason you’re keeping a mental tally of all the ways his career comes first. It might be because you believe that if you don’t keep score, you’ll end up doing EVERYTHING–and you’re already doing so much. The problem with keeping score is that it has you working against your husband instead of with him. What if you didn’t have to keep score AND you didn’t have to do everything? Click below for a short video on how to stop keeping score, not do everything, and get on the same team as your husband.

The work I did with Sara helped transform some tricky relationships in my life. Rather than carry hurts and tiptoe around conversations, I have used tools I learned in our coaching sessions to connect with important people in my life in ways I never thought possible. Coaching has reached every corner of my emotional life in an incredibly positive way.

Becca S.

I came to Sara not feeling supported in my hopes and dreams, but I learned how to voice my opinion and how to manage my feelings. I also learned how to not make myself a bad person for feeling a certain way. Now, instead of using my energy to carry around resentment and anger, I am pursuing my dream job while still taking care of my children and supporting my husband in medicine.

Christy W.

I felt so comfortable being vulnerable with Sara. I learned how to grieve and move through my life without fear or feeling bad. I learned to be my own best friend. Everyone in my family has benefited from that. Honestly I was worried that the cost wouldn’t be worth it but it sooo was. Through her coaching I was able to untangle the problems in my life and be the person I want to be, regardless of what other people I love choose to do.

Marie P.

I was worried that coaching would reveal a huge flaw in me that I wouldn’t be able to “fix”, but instead I learned how to hold space for whatever I’m thinking and feeling. I never felt judged but also never felt coddled so I was able to accelerate my growth so much.

Stacey C.

I've come to really know that I have incredible worth and have so much value to add to this world by being true to myself, which includes accepting my feelings and my flaws. Sara's compassion has taught me that I can show true compassion to myself. Through coaching I have empowered myself to create a life that I truly love.

Jani B.

Coaching opened to me a totally new way of dealing with situations/people that used to cause me so much anxiety and relational issues. I always had concrete steps to take away after our sessions. It might sound silly but knowing that she is a doctor's wife helped me a lot in building that trust.

Irene S.

Hi, I’m Sara,

Master Certified Life Coach and wife of a physician.

Anytime I meet another doctor’s wife, I think, ‘Say no more, friend, I totally get you.’

You’ve put your aspirations on hold so that your husband can pursue his.

You’re good at hiding your problems–especially because a lot of people think you shouldn’t have any.

You’ve seen the look that says, “What do you have to complain about? I mean, aren’t you married to a doctor?”

It can be really lonely sometimes.

I remember ping-ponging back and forth between silently resenting how much my husband’s career stole our time with him and guilt, believing I should just be grateful. I often found myself thinking, ‘We did all that…for THIS?!’

I had spent so many years supporting his dreams that I didn’t even know what mine were anymore–I just knew that it wasn’t THIS.

Discovering coaching changed all of that for me.
Things can change for you, too.

Ready to stop feeling angry at your husband

before he even walks through the door tonight?

Not keeping score doesn’t require you to keep quiet and silently seeth while doing everything on your own. It does help you let go of anger and resentment and focus on solutions instead of scoreboards. It means you make room for working together instead of feeling isolated and alone.

It's fun to keep score in sports and card games.

Hi, I’m Sara,

It can be really lonely sometimes.

Ready to stop feeling angry at your husband

Learn how to become an equal player in your marriage.