About Me | Sara Payne LLC

I kept score in my marriage for a decade before I realized I didn’t have to.

You don’t have to, either.

I know what it’s like to slog through medical school and residency and finally get to the end of that journey, only to look around and think, “Where’s my pot of gold at the end of this rainbow?”

You likely put your dreams on hold for more than a decade so your husband could pursue his.

And now he’s done with training, but you still feel like the backup dancer to his career.

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When you feel this way it's easy

to resent how much your husband’s career steals your time with him and your family and makes it impossible for you to pursue your goals.

I used to feel that way, too.

Until I found coaching and everything changed.

Coaching allowed me to:

  • Make room for my desires and goals.
  • Work as a team with my husband, even when we fundamentally disagree about a lot of things--like where we should spend our money or whether or not our kids should play competitive sports.
  • Trade silent resentment for a marriage where we are equal partners.
  • Help hundreds of doctors’ wives just like you come out of the shadow of their husbands’ career and become an equal player in their marriage and their family.
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It's impossible for you to survive medical training and not develop inner strength and perspective

This is why I love working with women just like you

As you learn how to stop keeping score in your marriage, you will be able to work as a team with your husband and create a marriage based on connection instead of contention. Even when you disagree. Especially when you disagree.

This means that instead of using your mental energy to keep score in your marriage, you will spend more time laughing together. Making plans for your future together. Working together. Playing together. Pursuing BOTH of your dreams together, not just his.

This is just one of the many skills you will learn to apply with ease in Doctors’ Wives Only.

Doctors’ Wives Only

is a community of like-minded women who understand the unique challenges that come with being married to a doctor.

But they don’t let those challenges hold them back from what lights them up inside–whether that’s getting an advanced degree, certifying in Pilates, or building an online business.

In Doctors’ Wives Only, you are accepted and loved exactly as you are. You don’t have to prove to anyone that your life is challenging, too. Through coaching and shared community with other women like you, you will accomplish impossible goals you are almost afraid to say out loud right now.

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The world needs strong medical families...and it all starts with you.

Because strong medical families strengthen women. They strengthen doctors. They strengthen children. They strengthen communities. They strengthen the world.

Ready to be part of the revolution?

Let's Chat
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