Work With Me | Sara Payne LLC

Let's see if these sound familiar:

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You thought your life would be easier once he settled into his career.

but you keep coming back to resentment and anger. And there never seems to be time for what you want.

The truth is, some things ARE easier, but some things aren’t. You thought you’d have more time with him and you don’t.

You thought you’d have more time to take that class, or go after that promotion at work, or finally make your health a priority. You thought you would feel different. And you don’t.

If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know this:

There’s nothing wrong with you. Your family didn’t make a huge mistake with his career.

It’s not too late to take your turn.

You don’t have to choose between what you want, his career, and what’s best for your family.

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There is room for all of it.

there are solutions that are best for everyone, including you.

Through coaching with me, you will learn how to focus on solving problems in your marriage instead of blaming him or his job (or yourself for not knowing better).

You’ll learn how to communicate your needs without feeling demanding or selfish.

You’ll stop keeping a mental tally of everything you’re missing out on because of his career and instead put your energy into doing the things you feel called to do.

The world needs what you have to offer. You have so much to offer.

You can pursue your desires fully without sacrificing your family’s well-being. No more playing small in your career, your community, or any part of your life.

I have combined everything I’ve learned

from my experience being married to a doctor, from coaching my clients, and from my training as a Master Certified Life Coach

into a one-on-one program that will give you the tools and skills you need to drop the resentment and create a loving, connected marriage. You’ll free up so much energy to do what you want when you aren’t feeling held back by him or his career. 

I have combined everything I've learned
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Along with all the tools that will help you create the marriage you long for, you’ll also learn how to:

It’s possible to be grateful for your life AND advocate for changes that are important to you.

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many doctor's wives feel alone
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It's so common to feel alone and misunderstood

because there isn’t exactly a line of people eager to hear about the challenges of having a partner with a demanding career.

You don’t have a place to share your struggles. Especially because a lot of people think you shouldn’t have any.

I DO understand your struggles because they have been mine, too. But I won’t let you stay stuck in them. 

Coaching gives you a space where you can bring all of your struggles and all of your judgments and all of your shame and you will be met with love and compassion.

Every time.

No exceptions.

You get to come exactly as you are--but you won’t stay that way.

You will learn how to change every relationship in your life from the inside out.

You can have a resentment-free marriage. Coaching is the solution to get you there.

You might be thinking, ‘I’m open to working on our marriage but my partner isn’t.’ 

We can start with you. It only takes one person to completely change a marriage for the better. 

come exactly as you are
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I'd already given so much to our marriage--wasn't it his turn to change?

Changing the dynamics of your marriage is a gift you give yourself. 

Yes, change can be hard. But staying stuck is harder. 

I stayed stuck for years. 

Until I found coaching.

And everything changed.

you don't have to put your ideal life on hold
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You don’t have to put what you want on hold any longer.

You’ve waited long enough.
sign up below for a strategy session. it’s private, over zoom, and will give you so much clarity. in just one hour. 

It will jump start you on the path to creating a life where his job is no longer in your way. A life where you no longer feel full of resentment and regret.

A life where you make time for what you want, while still supporting him and your family. 

What would it be like to…

Have the energy to pursue what lights you up inside?

You’ll learn how to drop the resentment in your marriage and you’ll have so much more energy to focus on the things you feel called to do.

Whether it’s finally decluttering your closets, getting the promotion you’ve put on hold for years, opening your own business, going back to school, 
 
or accomplishing a health goal that you’ve put on the back burner for years.
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Here’s what you’ll experience with coaching:

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Coaching with Sara includes:

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Sign up for a Strategy Session

Get clarity, direction, and hope from a single session, whether we work together regularly or not. It’s free and completely confidential.

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Learn how to become an equal player in your marriage.

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