I kept score in my marriage for a decade until I realized no one wins at that game.

There’s a better way.

I didn’t get married so that I could win at an imaginary game of “who’s life is harder?”—his?–or mine??”

Acknowledging that I was feeling resentful was the first step. I knew I couldn’t fix something I wasn’t willing to see.

Resentment didn’t mean I had a horrible marriage. It didn’t mean I was ungrateful, either.

And it didn’t mean my husband was oblivious or uncaring.

Resentment was telling me there was something in my life that I wanted or needed but I wasn’t getting.

Resentment was a window into my deepest desires. Instead of hiding from it or clinging to it, I chose to learn from it.

When you feel resentful, it's easy

to get angry at how much your husband’s career steals your time with him and your family and makes it impossible for you to pursue your goals.

I used to feel that way, too. Until I found coaching and everything changed. Coaching allowed me to:

You are a woman who knows that the quality of your life is directly related to the quality of your relationships.

This is why I love working with women just like you

As you learn how to learn from (and then let go of) the resentment in your marriage, you will be able to work as a team with your husband and create a marriage based on connection–instead of contention. Even when you disagree.

Especially when you disagree.

This means that instead of using your mental energy to keep score in your marriage, you will spend more time laughing together. Making future plans together. Working together. Playing together. Pursuing BOTH of your dreams together, whether that’s traveling or building a business or making a lasting contribution in your community.

This is just one of the many skills you will learn to apply with ease through coaching.

Coaching with Sara

is like talking to your best friend, except that she lovingly points out all the ways you are lying to yourself, and teaches you the skills you need to have a rock solid marriage.

Yes, my clients have challenges, but they don’t let those challenges hold them back from creating the connection they know is possible in their marriage. And they don’t wait for their husbands to change. We’ve all tried that and know it doesn’t work.

My clients come to me ready to be the change that they want to see in their marriage. And they learn tools that help them create rock solid relationships with all the most important people in their life. Yes, with their husband, but also with their children, their in-laws, their co-workers, and so many others.

The world needs strong marriages and strong families more than ever...and it all starts with you.

Because strong families strengthen women. They strengthen marriages. They strengthen children. They strengthen communities. They strengthen the world.

Ready to be part of the strong marriages revolution?

I kept score in my marriage for a decade until I realized no one wins at that game.

When you feel resentful, it's easy

You are a woman who knows that the quality of your life is directly related to the quality of your relationships.

Coaching with Sara

The world needs strong marriages and strong families more than ever...and it all starts with you.

Ready to create a rock solid marriage?