Let's see if these sound familiar:

You love your husband but find yourself feeling resentful (and then guilty for feeling that way) a lot of the time.
You know it's up to you to be the change you want to see in your marriage--trying to change him has never worked.
You believe that a rock solid marriage is possible for you, you just don't know HOW to get there.

You thought marriage would be easier. You often think, "When did we grow apart?"

Time and time again, you keep coming back to resentment and anger. And you are ready to change that.

You’ve tried to change him. It hasn’t worked. You know you could dig your heals in and blame him, but that is exhausting.

When you are still and honest with yourself, you know there are changes you could make, too. But you’ve tried on your own and it hasn’t worked. You are ready for a guide.

If any of this sounds familiar, I want you to know this:

There’s nothing wrong with you. And your marriage isn’t doomed.

It’s not too late to create a rock solid relationship with your husband.

It’s possible for you to have the connection, love, and honesty that you desire.

It's easier than you think.

Staying stuck in resentment is exhausting. Intentional change is exciting and purposeful. Through coaching,

You’ll learn how to focus on solving problems in your marriage instead of blaming him, his career, or yourself.

You’ll learn how to communicate your needs without picking a fight.

You’ll learn how to be open and vulnerable and not get defensive (even if he does).

You’ll learn how to change the dance steps in your marriage, and your entire relationship will change for the better. You are brave enough to go first.

You’ll learn how you can pursue your desires fully without sacrificing your family’s well-being. No more playing small in your career, your community, or any part of your life.

I have combined everything I’ve learned

from coaching my clients, from my training as a Master Certified Life Coach, and from applying the tools in real time to my own marriage

into a one-on-one program that will give you the tools and skills you need to ditch the scorecard and create a loving, connected marriage. You’ll free up so much energy in your mind, body, and heart. Energy to enjoy your life and your relationships more than ever.

Along with the tools you'll learn to create a rock solid marriage, you'll learn how to:

Have productive, open conversations with your husband even when you've both been defensive in the past.
Focus on creating loving relationships with your kids NOW instead of laying awake worrying about everything you might be doing wrong to screw up their future.
Enjoy spending time with your husband--like belly laughing more, and making more plans for the future.
Set healthy boundaries with the challenging relationships in your life (ahem...the in-laws)--and lovingly uphold those boundaries with when you need to.
Focus on what you want to create--with your career, with your health, and with your family life.
Tackle your to-do list with ease and efficiency instead of exhaustion and overwhelm.

It's so common to feel alone and misunderstood

and like there’s no one you can really open up to.

You don’t have a place to share your struggles AND get the help you need. Venting to your sister is nice once in awhile but isn’t helping you solve your marriage problems.

I DO understand your struggles because they have been mine, too. But I won’t let you stay stuck in them.

Coaching gives you a space where you can bring all of your struggles and all of your judgments and all of your shame and you will be met with love and compassion.

And the truth.

Every time.

No exceptions.

You get to come exactly as you are--but you won’t stay that way.

You will learn how to change your marriage from the inside out.

You can have a resentment-free marriage. Coaching is the solution to get you there.

You might be thinking, ‘I’m open to working on our marriage but my partner isn’t.’

We can start with you. It only takes one person to completely change a marriage for the better.

Maybe you've thought, "I've already given so much to our marriage--isn't it his turn to change?"

Changing the dynamics of your marriage is a gift you give yourself. Let’s do this for YOU.

Yes, change takes effort. But staying stuck is harder.

I stayed stuck for years.

Until I found coaching.

And everything changed.

You don’t have to wait any longer for the marriage you want.

You’ve waited long enough.
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It will jump start you on the path to creating a rock solid relationship with your partner.

A marriage where you like him as much as you love him.

What would it be like to…

Have the energy to do things that really matter to you?

You’ll learn how to drop the resentment in your marriage and you’ll have so much more energy to focus on the things you feel called to do.

Whether it’s finally decluttering your closets, getting the promotion you’ve put on hold for years, opening your own business, going back to school,

or competing in that triathlon you’ve dreamed about for years.

Here’s what you’ll experience with coaching:

A fundamental shift in your relationship with your husband, where you focus on solving problems instead of placing blame. A shift that allows you to spend more time laughing together, making plans together, and having fun together.
A transformed relationship with yourself--one where you make your priorities a priority, to. One where you SHOW your kids what it looks like to follow their dreams instead of only telling them.
A future where you'll take bigger risks and set bigger goals because you'll no longer let past failures or regrets hold you back from the life you want.

I was worried that coaching would reveal a huge flaw in me that I wouldn’t be able to “fix”, but instead I learned how to hold space for whatever I’m thinking and feeling. I never felt judged but also never felt coddled so I was able to accelerate my growth so much.

Stacey C.

I was initially very hesitant to join Doctors’ Wive Only group coaching. I find it difficult to let my guard down and be vulnerable. But the group understands the complexities of being a Doctor's wife and rather than feeling judged, I feel validated that I am not crazy, lazy, or weak. I have made so many positive changes in my relationships and I am very grateful to have found coaching. My family's lives have been changed forever because of it.

Jackie S.

Through coaching I was able to discover that my seemingly “nice, tried and true” thoughts were like poison to me and not helping me at all. I learned how to process the pain of years of resentment and pull down the wall I was holding up around my heart. Working on myself made all the difference for me to love my relationship with my husband.

Julie E.

Through coaching I learned that I am my own champion and hero. I learned how to be honest and hear my inner voice.

Rachael P

Coaching with Sara includes:

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Weekly coaching where together I take care of your greatest asset--your own brain.
Relationship tools that will change your marriage and can be applied to every other relationship that's important to you.
Support between calls through written coaching.
Tools that will change the way you live your life and handle your emotions and your stress--forever.

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